Things went wrong because I didn't know the rules of this men's club. I was on a business trip in Thailand, in a hotel in the lesser touristic part of Bangkok where English was not well spoken. I wanted to see some of the city before I had to return home the week after. The club was only a few blocks walking from the hotel, and the display on the outside was beautiful, with photos of very sexy women.

They clearly didn't let everyone in, but as a foreigner I had no problem, and soon I was at the bar, where a beautiful bartender served me an exotic drink. She didn't speak much English but she knew how to mix a drink.

Before I had a chance to checkout the rest of the club, as there were multiple levels and rooms, a woman asked if the chair next to me was taken. Or at least I assumed she did, because again, they didn't speak much English here.

Of course I allowed her the seat, even offered her a drink, and her quick chat with the bartender in their wonderful language resulted in a very