5. How to capture your victim
Tying someone up is crucial if you don't want to harm said person but need them out of the way or need to punish them without severe injury. Coming from someone whose been grabbed, snuck up on, and forcefully bound, I know the right procedures to pinning someone and tying them up correctly.
First, Go for a surprise attack. Surprising your victim is crucial because it gives you a larger chance to grab and secure your victim before they have time to react. Go for securing their arms behind their back and covering their mouth with your hands. You can control your victim verbally and threaten them to keep quiet so you can focus on their arms. If they refuse or struggle, push them against a bed or a wall to quiet them as you bind their hands
Then gag your victim. Id advice anything thats gets the job done for a starting gag. You don't have to keep them incredibly quiet from the start, but just enough to keep them quiet(er) as you continue to bind them.
Lastly, tie their feet. Tying their feet keeps them immobile and allows you to know where they are and keep them from moving quickly.
Hands are for interacting, mouth is for distress calls, and feet are for movement. Once you've secure those three focal points, you basically have yourself a bound and helpless victim. After this, you can make the bindings neater, add more bindings, or whatever you have in store for them.
6. Dom and Sub
I plan to talk about how to introduce bondage in a later story-post, but will go over some basics in this post to demonstrate the importance of a Sub and Dom role.
Doms: Your job sounds easy but is incredibly important and thus holds the future of the relationship in your hands. Noms, always listen to your Subs, even when they have a huge gag, make sure you are paying attention to body language and the noises they are making. Its easy to tell the difference between pleasure and distress. If your sub loves punishment, don't go overboard and make sure there is no long term pain. If your Sub begs to be let out, make sure they are using a safe-word so you know its not part of the role-play and is a legit request to be released.
Subs: Continuously show your Dom your condition and how your feeling during bondage. Being bound and gagged can be difficult, so make sure you give honest answers for when your Dom asks questions. You are in just much power as your Dom, so make sure your safety comes first.
7. gag testing
Many gags come in many shapes and sizes. If your getting into bondage and want to see how much gag punishment you can take, alone or with your Dom, make sure you get some training and practice in.
bananas and popsicles are a good way to see how far you can go in terms of mouth stuffing. Sticking marshmallows in your mouth (like the game chubby bunny) can help determine how much space you have in your mouth and how much you can handle at a time. In each session, try stuffing more and more in your mouth so you can get used to it. Chocking and legit gagging during bondage sucks and is no fun at all so id advise this tip STRONGLY.
More Tips and Tricks down the road, more pics down the road, and yes of course, even more delicious stories of rope and tape restricting my every move.
Toodles!